Friends, you spoke loud and clear through the results of my reader’s survey: You want to figure out how to develop your sense of style without spending a ton of money or compromising your adherence to modest clothing standards. You also want to figure out how to dress in a manner that’s flattering to YOUR body, which is an important skill to master to develop your style. In response to the many requests and questions I received, I crafted a series of posts dedicated to getting back to the basics of style and fit that ANY woman can follow:
Part Seven: One Simple Rule That Can Change Your Wardrobe Game
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First, we will tackle a difficult yet essential topic: How to dress well for your primary body type. I learned some time ago that the key to looking put together and well dressed is having a firm understanding of how to dress in a manner that’s flattering for YOUR body type…not your dream body type or past body type, but your current shape. Since I started dressing modestly three years ago, I also learned that you don’t have to show tons of skin to look great in your clothes and you certainly don’t have to bare your body to feel confident in your clothes. You simply have to know what kind of clothes work for you so you feel confident in them.
If you’re several pounds heavier than you like, don’t fret. You don’t have to be skinny to dress well (despite what magazines will have you believe). It’s more important to have a good understanding of where your weight is distributed on your body and how to subtly emphasize the flattering parts of your body while de-emphasizing others areas of your body to create a balanced figure (or simply hide the problems areas that drive you crazy – more on that topic next week).
First, you need to identify your primary body shape. To help with that, I’ve combined *hours* of research into a few simple infographics.
Since your body is pretty much straight up and down with little to no defined waistline or curves (nothing wrong with that!), you’ll have to rely on clothing if you want to balance out your shape and create the illusion of curves. Belted tops and dresses, skirts with volume increasing details, and anything draped that gathers near your waist are your closet besties. You can also embrace your athletic shape and rock sheath styles that look best with your body shape.
Your closet besties: empire waist dresses, A-line dresses, and drop waist dresses. What does each of those classic dress silhouettes have in common? They elongate your body and glide over the widest part of your body (your stomach). Drop waist dresses, in particular, work well with your body shape because they create volume on your lower body. Low waist pants are also a good item in your clothing arsenal because they don’t sit at your waist.
A structured jacket with eye-catching details will give structure and draw attention to the upper half of your body. If you’re wearing something plain on your lower half (like black trousers), it well help you’re your body appear proportional because your lower half will appear smaller. A-line silhouettes highlight smallest part of your body (waist) while gliding over the widest part (your hips). The result? Your whole body appears more balanced.
If you’re an inverted triangle, A-line dresses, skirts, flared pants and especially cropped jackets with a peplum hem are essentials for your closet. Those items create definition around your lower body while minimizing your broad shoulders and upper body. The result? Balance.
Why the suggested pieces above work: Your body is already fairly balanced and proportional, so you’ll want to wear clothes that gracefully accentuate your natural shape (we aren’t talking body cons here…). This is my primary body shape (and my sample measurements above), so I can personally attest to the power of belted jackets, wrap tops, and pretty much anything with a nipped waist that isn’t skin-tight.
You’ll notice I included measurements in each body shape infographic. That’s because that’s the best way to determine your body shape is to measure your shoulders, bust, waist, and hips. So grab a measuring tape, and measure the circumference of shoulders, the widest part of your bust and thighs, and the narrowest part of your waist. Need additional guidance? Check out this handy article on Who What Wear and this simple graphic from eShakti.com:
That all seems easy enough, right?
Well, here’s the tricky part. You may have a secondary or tertiary shape depending on where you gain weight. Example: You may primarily be an hourglass, but when you gain weight, those pounds gather around your stomach and midsection. In that case, your secondary shape would be an apple. To further complicate this matter, there are actually more than 5 body shapes (because, well, all of us aren’t shaped like fruit, rulers and hourglasses). If you’re having trouble figuring out your body shape because you don’t fit within these traditional shapes, don’t fret. Just remember this one principal: Emphasize the smaller parts of your body while minimizing the widest or largest. If you follow that principle alone, you can create a sense of balance and proportion with your clothing.
I hope these tips give you greater confidence about your body and how to dress it! Have specific questions about your body type and measurements? Let me know in the comments below!
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